8 tips for a safe and relaxed first date
Meeting someone from the app for the first time? These simple habits help you feel safe and enjoy the moment.
A first date should be exciting – not stressful. These habits help you stay in control and focus on the person in front of you.
Before the date
- Check the verification stars. Profiles with a Silver or Gold star have gone through additional verification steps.
- Chat first. Take the time to get a feel for each other in the chat, or do a quick video call.
- Tell a friend. Share where you are going, who you are meeting and when you expect to be back.
- Plan your own journey. Arrange how you get there and back yourself.
During the date
- Meet in public. A cafe, bar or restaurant is perfect for a first meeting.
- Keep an eye on your drink. Never leave it unattended.
- Trust your gut. You can leave at any time – no explanation needed.
After the date
- Report bad behaviour. If something felt wrong, report the profile in the app. Our team reviews every report.
Have fun – and take it at your own pace.